NYC bus driver leaves child two miles from his home
A New York City bus driver has dropped a five-year-old child off, despite it being the end of the line, two miles from his home and without an adult to collect him.
The New York Daily News reports an unnamed bus driver, who now is said elsewhere to have been suspended, “ordered” the child off the bus he wasn’t supposed to be on to begin with as he lives across the street from his school.
It all started when someone–unidentified at this point–placed the child on a school bus instead of walking him to his after-school program, as per his usual routine. At the end of the line the driver, who according to DOE regulations should have brought the little boy back to his school, instructed the child to get off the bus. The first grader wandered around and then asked someone for help.
“A DOE spokeswoman said this could be a case of driver misconduct.”
Could be?
Sure, most of us are aware that we don’t want to jump on someone’s case without adequately investigating what happened. We also know that young children’s hyperbolic accounts–the boy said he was made to get off the bus–ought to be looked into before either side is dismissed. In this instance, especially given some of the snarly blog comments aimed at the mother, it is my opinion that we also need to re-examine our critical thinking skills.
It’s painfully easy to jump onto the race issue. At least one comment I saw implied the driver was negligent and uncaring because the child is a minority. Another ranted about the mother’s use of the word “replace” in her response to the school’s standard issue apology. Still another wanted to blame the mother for not being there to collect her son.
At the time this story was released no one knew who the driver was (although I agree I find it hard to believe the school district could be included in this general population), let alone race. Even if that fact was known, what does that imply? Does knowing the driver’s race even change anything regarding how he or she ought to be disciplined? The suggestion is racist itself, in my opinion, no matter what skin color the person has.
And all this blaming the mother hatefulness indicates that some people didn’t read the story quite carefully enough, lack critical reading skills, or are unfamiliar with after-school programs. All of these possibilities are good reasons to ask questions, but not to attack the child’s mother.
Since after-school programs generally exist to care for children whose parents work or are travelling from work after school lets out, I would guess the mother was pretty much where she was supposed to be–at work. Her expectations were reasonable: that the school program act in a responsible manner towards her child and keep him from harm until she can reach him. When she responded to the school district with a sentiment I think most of us would agree is the first fearful possibility that came to our minds as well, I think it is reasonable to excuse her less-than-perfect word choice given that she was probably pretty shocked and distraught. Moreover, as a “literature type,” I could probably make an argument that compares the implication of her word with the shoddy treatment her son received at the hands of a complete moron. And that’s being nice.
If any dear reader gets the idea I’m taking this personally: I am. I am at a complete loss as to how someone could possibly believe that it was OK to drop a kid off two miles from his home. OK, I get that he or she may not have known that. But signing on the dotted line after the statement “I understand and will abide by all rules and regulations that govern the serious business of transporting children to and from school” means that the person was fully aware he or she was not to leave a child off the bus without an adult there to receive him. End of the line or not. Whether the child was asked nicely to get off or not.
I have a five-year-old child myself, and the thought of him wandering the streets here makes me absolutely nauseous. I would probably be spitting with rage if this had happened to him; improper word choice might be the least of the school district’s worries. Given that this–from what I have seen online today–is not as rare as one would hope, the school districts need to get their acts together. I realise mistakes happen, but when we say that, we mean things like “the newspaper didn’t get dropped off in the classroom” or “I forgot to run some extra copies.” Not, “I misplaced your child.”
Fifth grader suspended for anti-Obama t-shirt
I have to admit to mixed feelings about putting campaign buttons, t-shirts, etc. of any stripe on children. A fifth grader might fall into the age range I have in mind of minors who aren’t mature enough in mind, emotion and intellect to be able to come to some sort of reasonable conclusion, but then again I might be recalling too closely me at that age. Like my classmates, I was exceedingly immature. Or maybe engaging in escapism.
There’s a succinct analysis of the legality behind this issue here, so I won’t get into that (at least not yet). Suffice to say the person who commented that the school should break out their checkbook probably is spot on.
If girls can come to school wearing jeans that have the word “Angel” embroidered across their bottoms, or kids with t-shirts that joke about (even advocate?) drug use, what gives with this? At most this kid is probably guilty of sloppiness so my advice would be to go buy a smaller shirt, re-do the message and get back to class. The message being political, and that being a reason to silence it, strikes me as hypocritical and biased. And if the students there get worked up enough from such a t-shirt that they lose control in a big way, then there are higher-order problems at that school than difference of opinion.
This reminds me of a headline I saw recently re: a professor who assigned an anti-Palin essay, which was later “broadened” to include all candidates. While many are so critical of people who allow their children to wear political slogans, I have to ask: Why we are allowing schools and teachers of being in the business of political indoctrination?
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